Aging is a life process we will all encounter if we live long enough. At age 69 I have seen many loved ones and friends progress through this phase of life.
It's the beginning of settling down, a calmness in mind and body. Wisdom is a benefit. The elderly have lived a long life and have seen and done things that can and will be beneficial to those who come after them. Knowing that their lives are half over sometimes gives them the gumption to do and say things that they may have wanted to earlier in life, and to do it for as long as they can.
Loss of independence, failing health, memory loss and appearance are among the negative aspects. Having to depend on someone to feed, clothe, bathe, handle expenses and take care of them is very hard to cope with and is seen as taking everything away from them. This can lead to depression, anger, aggression and in some cases violence.
Patience, strength, compassion, love and prayer is imperative when dealing with and caring for the elderly.
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